Me & The Kiwi

We met on a plane. Two weeks later, we jumped in a truck together and never looked back. Five years on, we’re still traveling this life together—sharing adventures, supporting dreams, and proving that the best journeys start with a leap of faith and the right co-pilot.

The Writer

I believe shelter isn’t always a place—sometimes it’s a person, and sometimes it’s the journey itself. An award-winning writer (The Noise Beneath the Apple, Book of the Year 2013), I’ve contributed to Fodor’s Travel, GoNomad, and Rova, and work as a yogi and late-life model. My grandfather was Hard Ball Harry, a 1930s semi-pro baseball pitcher who taught me about life through summer nights listening to games on a transistor radio. I met a New Zealand helicopter pilot on a plane five years ago, jumped in a truck with him two weeks later, and we’re still going. I work with the SF Giants Spring Training camp, and am fundraising for a VW bus to take the stories on the road.

A Man and a Helicopter in Juneau Alaska

The Kiwi

He’s a helicopter pilot from New Zealand—my partner, my biggest supporter, and the reason this creative life is possible. His steadiness gives me wings, and together we’re building something extraordinary.

Releasing January 15, 2025

Shelter in Motion:

Essays from a Bohemian Life

Essays From the Short Bus & Beyond

Shelter in Motion is a collection of twenty-two award-winning essays that span a life lived deliberately off the beaten path—from a white childhood on an Indian Reservation to van life during a pandemic, from selling Obama condoms in Times Square to taking a six-day Greyhound ride to mend a broken heart.

With sharp wit and unflinching honesty, Heather Jacks invites readers into the moments that shaped her: a ten-year-old watching her friend’s home burn, summer nights listening to baseball with her grandfather, dancing with Aboriginals under the Australian stars at sixteen, and being rescued by a tribal councilman named Bruce when the world shut down in 2020.

These bite-sized stories explore what it means to be an outsider, to reinvent yourself at midlife, and to find unexpected kindness in the most unlikely places. Whether she’s embracing her “inner gamey-ness” on a broken-down Greyhound, discovering she’s “like the dreams of the gods” in the Outback, or learning that sometimes the best shelter is motion itself, Jacks reminds us that the strangers we meet often become the family we need.

Perfect for a train ride, a plane trip, or any moment when you need a reminder that the bohemian path—while rarely easy—is always worth taking.

For anyone who has ever felt too different, too free-spirited, or too “interesting,” this collection is a love letter to the long way home, the unlikely friendships, and the courage it takes to keep moving forward.

What Readers Are Saying

Your story is one of the most beautiful stories about baseball (and love) I have ever read. It’s a children’s book and an amazing movie, a Netflix special. Keep writing!

Thomas Wedge

What Readers Are Saying

This is so beautiful. Thank you! I have so much more to say, but I’m just going to sleep on it after forwarding this to my son.

Andrew J. DiMeo, Sr., Ph.D.

What Readers Are Saying

I felt every word of this—the innocence, the creativity, the quiet ache beneath it all—you told this story with such beauty and depth.

Michael Burg, MD (Satire Sommelier) 

What Readers Are Saying

Oh, Heather… this just hit me hard. 

Jojo Teckina

What Readers Are Saying

God, that was good. Really, really good.

Carol Burt

What Readers Are Saying

This was such a beautiful and touching story. I felt every moment you shared on the road. Bruce and the others showed real kindness, and your words reminded me how humanity shines in tough times. Thank you for sharing this journey — it gave me hope and made me smile.

Rajesh Poovathum Kadavil

What Readers Are Saying

What a story and adventure…I loved every word..This should be a movie.

Julie Leah Blooms

What Readers Are Saying

Heather, you wrote this like poetry. In less than 10 minutes, I felt like I knew Echo and Lenny and had a small idea of what they went through. What you didn’t say spoke just as loudly. I loved this story and am so glad you could send Echo home. And do you have your own dog now?

What Readers Are Saying

This is such a lovely essay, filled with humor and hope. There are good souls out there, and you’re one of them. Thank you for sharing this!

Hannah Andrews

What Readers Are Saying

“Echo was….” his voice fell silent as his mind searched for the right combination of words.
“Echo was a Humble. Honest. Hero,” he finished at last.
I couldn’t see the page –I was in tears.
Wonderful as always, thanks for sharing.

Jennifer Marie Waters

What Readers Are Saying

Best piece I’ve ever read in my 5 years of reading and writing here.

Marcus aka Gregory Maidman

What Readers Are Saying

What a beautiful and heartfelt tribute. Thank you for sharing such a touching story about love, life, and baseball.

Yashvardhan Singh Sisodia

What Readers Are Saying

This piece is a beautiful meditation on life through the lens of the game. Your use of baseball as a metaphor for risk, resilience, and presence is incredibly effective—it’s not just about the sport but about how we show up to challenges and uncertainty in everyday life.
I loved the line about taking life “one pitch, one batter, one inning” at a time. So many of us need that lesson, especially in a world that pushes us to sprint through everything. This reflection is both grounding and inspiring.

Keith Kelley

What Readers Are Saying

This one’s a new favorite. I felt the intimacy of your relationship even though it mostly took place at a distance. So much texture. I could feel the dust as it settled between you.

Shaler McClure Wright

What Readers Are Saying

I can’t explain the sadness I felt when I reached this part. Thank you for sharing the beautifully written story. Now Issi’s story is with all of us who have read it.

Asanda

What Readers Are Saying

Thanks so much for sharing this story. I want to know more. Hope you are still writing about Issi and you.

Carra Leah Hood

What Readers Are Saying

It’s heartbreaking what happened to her, but also beautiful how you carry her memory with such respect and gratitude.

Pyrros Mathios

What Readers Are Saying

This was deeply affecting. The layering of place, identity, and survival was masterfully done. Every detail felt lived, not constructed. The story carries weight, and you honored it by telling it plainly and powerfully.

Brian Rosta

What Readers Are Saying

Your story is powerful. I felt your pain, strength, and growth. Thank you for sharing this.

Tara Sattar

What Readers Are Saying

This reads like a movie script, Heather. It’s magnificent. I raced through it, then returned for the second read.

Fred Vasaturo

What Readers Are Saying

What an incredible story! The raw and unfiltered honesty of your experience is captivating, and the lessons you took from that wild chapter of your life are both unexpected and impactful. It’s not just about the rock-and-roll chaos, but about resilience, embracing lessons from even the most bizarre and challenging situations, and moving forward stronger.
The humor you interwove with the deeper realizations makes it relatable and uplifting, especially for anyone who has faced professional or personal setbacks. The takeaway—that it’s not the end of the world, and we’re not defined by our failures but by how we move past them—resonates with so many of us.
Also, that last bit about KY Jelly as a frizz-tamer? Absolute gold! Thanks for sharing such a vivid and heartfelt journey. Have others found strange silver linings in their most chaotic moments, too?

Aligned with Jo

What Readers Are Saying

Oh my gawd. I love this so much. It was good until I got to the film guy, and then it became a truly laugh-out-loud moment. It made me sit up in my chair and pee my pants a little.

Adelle Regalia

Here are Some

Baseball & Beyond

Read: One Last Time To Boston

Baseball & Beyond

I’m the granddaughter of Hard Ball Harry, a Depression-era semi-pro pitcher who was headed to the minor leagues—and maybe Fenway—until Uncle Sam called. He never made it to Boston, but he taught me everything about life through summer nights listening to Red Sox games on a transistor radio.

“Listening is how you feel the game—and baseball, like life, is meant to be felt.”

For six summers, I waited by my grandparents’ mailbox for a tall man with a dented lunch box. “Well, well, well, Little Birdie, where are we going tonight?” And I’d shout: Boston! Grandpa taught me that baseball mirrors life—patience, perseverance, teamwork, and knowing that sometimes you do everything right and still lose.

Now I work with SF Giants Spring Training camp, carrying his lessons with me. These are stories about hickory bats, transistor radios, and the sound that still brings tears to my eyes: leather meeting ball.